Im getting sick..I’m getting well..I’m getting sick.. I feel better, but then again my therapist says I’m in ” denial“
I’m now broke too. I think I am depressed. Maybe not, it could be the fact that my mother died recently and I am just feeling down. Its hopeless for me. I am so confused. I need to call my therapist. What the heck is ” indecisive disorder?”
I feel like dying . ..What does she mean “ Baker Act?” …
And so it goes with many people who are not educated on the business of mental health. If you have ever been to a ” quick lube ” or ” jiffy lube” for an oil change, you may have experienced the hated peek into the waiting room, when the technician tells you that he found some other major problems with your car.
Good news he says, we can fix it right here. That will be 79.95$ please. When we think about healthcare in general we need to have the same caution we do in those type situations. No matter whether your general practitioner, your dentist, or in this case we are talking mental health.
ITS A UNIVERSAL PROBLEM-(Only In America That Is..)
The United States represents 5% of the world’s population. Yet we consume 50% of all prescription drugs and 80% of prescription narcotics.
On this particular page I chose to emphasize the area of Mental Health. However America’s healthcare in general is operating in the same way. We pay and reward providers of all types of care lots of “extra” cash for extending services, stacking services on patient”s plan of care which simply do not apply and are not needed. Does this mean that each member of the care giving community is purposely defrauding patients an payers? Of course not .
Its the product of a monster that we created. No accountability and the total reliance on one provider to dictate what will be need to care for any given purpose. If you compared the healthcare system in Canada to America (they have something like 3x the success rate that we do) and identify what is so different , the first thing to stand out is the careful process with which they go through before officially labeling/diagnosing anyone with anything.
Here is Some Old School Psychology/ Psychiatry Courtesy Of Dr Bob Newhart-Laugh Alert! Oh and by the way you wont see a DSM or a prescription pad anywhere do you ? HMM
If I remember correctly, before a diagnoses from one doctor for a serious condition can be made in any of the branches of healthcare, an outside and independent doctor must confirm the diagnoses without any compensation from the first provider.. It seems like common sense and it clearly works.
There are many honest and well meaning doctors, therapists and professionals in each of the branches of healthcare. However the amount of providers who utilize and take advantage of the ” pay to fail” or ” keep them sick ” model for financial gain -is significant enough that it has a great impact on the general population and is only getting more ridiculous.
My hope is that this brief overview using Mental Health as the example , we can stir up enough concern and interest on the subject to research it and move towards making a change. Its not just the money wasted, that’s actually the lowest on the list of problems. It is the damaging effect that ANY diagnoses from any health care professional can have on people in any arm of health care.
Over the years in this blog I have shared my personal and professional experiences in each area of healthcare. I have posted 500+ articles on 35 categories all falling under these umbrellas. We are educating, but also attempting to initiate change by meeting with people like the payers or insurance companies spending million annually for no reason. I have done numerous interviews on radio and other media just to help move this problem into a solution mode.
There are many buzz words going around these days about what is “normal” for my child to be doing or how they should be acting at their age. Sadly, people will often watch a popular talk show, and come to the conclusion that their child has a certain disorder…or a friend who just read a good article forwards it to you in an attempt to help diagnose your child with some disorder. I have even heard people discussing what they think their child “is” as they scan magazines in the lines at grocery stores….
How do you find a way to really know if this new obsession with diagnoses for children (and medications) even applies to you and your situation? You likely wont get any opposition 1 child psychiatrists, as their primary role is to identify a disorder and treat it. Their primary challenge is to find what the child could meet criteria for according to the DSM -V.
In case you were unaware, that book the DSM, or Diagnostic and Statistical Manual that all psychiatrists use to find a diagnoses for their patient, contains ZERO statistics. After all every single ” disorder ” listed in there was totally made up. No evidence, no data, all theory. In a nutshell, 200 or so psychiatrists or so gather together anonymously every 4-5 years and toss their new ideas for ” disorders” in the hat and vote. Enough votes, and it is in the next version. Sure there is a little more to it but not much.
Then, somehow by an amazing coincidence -the major drug companies felt a need for a new drug to treat just such the type of disorders the doctors approved and as the group of doctors make the trek down the mountain from their secret meeting place, the drug makers offer up some samples for a new ” designer” drug made for that purpose. Now that is just something you cannot learn in a textbook.
The doctor writes for it and suddenly finds himself being rewarded for using that drug! Another “disorder” is born, and new medication on the market.
The problem is that even smart people like doctors can make up only so many new ” disorders ” It has now gotten to the point that the latest DSM reads like most people’s life at one time or another. So, are we all nuts? Or are we maybe just too gullible?
Even the names of these new ” disorders” are getting more challenging for doctors to make sound clinical. For example I think one recent discovery is something like ” teenage rebellion syndrome” which is the “medical” term for teens acting, well, like teenagers. Yeah, so there is that.
By the way, we are aware that mental illness is real. There is a need for treatment and in many cases medicine. In many cases however, the root problem and appropriate care for the problem is absolutely unrelated to the recommended treatment plan. Does this really mean that hundreds of thousands of people right now are taking medicine and getting a specific treatment that is useless?
How can this happen so easily? All these people getting sent to the wrong type doctor and put on medicine that not only wont work, but could hurt the situation even more. How can it be? Let me help you understand.
If you were shopping for a new truck and walked into a Ford dealer, and had a heart to heart with the salesman about just exactly what you need, would you be likely to get answer A or answer B below.
A- Well Sir and Ma’am, It is your lucky day, we have 3 of the last years models of that truck out back and the boss said this morning at the sales meeting ” Guys – Move those 3 pickups today! At any cost, we need room for the new models. I bet I can get you in one for 3k below book, if you buy today!
B- Gosh folks, I would love to help you out but my gut tells me you will enjoy a Chevy much more. Let me give you some directions to the closest dealership and pull the model I think you all will like off the internet so they don’t try and take advantage of you. I sure wish I felt my Ford was best, but I am a Christian man and I cannot sell it to you even if you lay out 30k in cash right here. I hope it all works out.
Now think for a minute. You have your answer? Of course you do. I think any of us would have a heart attack if a salesman said go to the other dealer. Well, when you are choosing between a psychiatrist or psychologist, you are up against the same problem. Because all doctors are rotten lying cheats who don’t care about you? No of course not.
The New Pills Keep Coming- At The Expense of Millions Of American Lives. We lead the world in every category of overdose deaths and addiction to pills. Yet many even most ” experts ” try and tag it An “societal epidemic” here in America. Well the truth is its a self prescribed American epidemic. We chose to restrict our people from what the rest of the world does. They all use natural elements, plants and ingredients that God put on this earth for illness.
Guess what? Their diseases go away. No more symptom treating. Its about healing in most cases anywhere but here. So we cannot call it anything but a prescription to ourselves only allow drugs for illness and pain and gave the drug companies free reign of the media. We overdosed. The drug companies in turn do what they do best.
Pour out as many bogus drugs as they can get by the FDA with and make billions while Americans die. Any country without any other options but drugs would be in the same exact boat. How can you avoid excessive rug use when there is no alternative, at least publicly. By the way, that is the reason Mike Carey of Alternative Solutions 4 Health is on this team. He helps people get rid of diseases like liver disease,, cancer , and many others naturally. See more on Mike in a minute .
Every now and again they may even go public like a few years back and admit that 12/13 of their psychotropic medications for those with suicidal thoughts actually CAUSE suicidal thoughts…oh oops. They waited until they had sold it for 7 years before sharing that and believe it or not I think those drugs are still on the market.
Kids and adults alike are being labeled with countless disorders and prescribed medicines they do not need. It is disturbing to think that money would drive some doctors to over prescribe medicines, but it happens every single day. Not all doctors are doing this, but enough are.
Its gotten bad enough that one group of researchers say that up to 10% of those being treated for addiction to prescription drugs, inpatient and outpatient are physicians themselves.
Its important at this juncture for me to insert a piece of information. It may be shocking, it may be hard to understand but it is true.
In each area of lives that we are experiencing crisis, the spiritual, mental and physical health -which makes up mind , body and soul we are 100% responsible for . We created our own crisis. For example, in mental health, we chose to be the only country to offer drugs as the only alternative for most healthcare. We ( Big Pharma) did this and pushes for it due to the billions of dollars it brings in. Understand that no other country in the world had forced their people to be dependent on drugs. So we don’t have an epidemic – this was self induced and any other country that did this to their people would be in the same boat. This same applies in the physical health, and the spiritual health or the church. Whatever food and drugs the FDA knowingly approves of is what we get to choose from. The FDA approves things each day that they know are either bad right from the start or that they likely end in death even. Both mental health and physical health patients could do much better in the way of healing by using natural healing products as they do in is in most countries, but the drug companies fight it with lawyers if need be to protect their billions in pill making.
Each of the the three areas of crisis has hundreds of thousands of ” professionals” to who are for decades trying to find ways to treat the symptoms of these problems with very little success despite the accolades they get in ” research” which is oftentimes nothing more than a way to get grant money without having to show any actual hard data about success.
The mission of this team and purpose of this site is not to jump on the failing merry go round of people throwing theories out when millions of of people are getting sick and dying over these things.
There is lots of talk but nobody sharing the root problems and initiating change in the thinking . This requires education. Then it requires total resetting of the mindset in each area of your life. That is what this team is about. Educate and reset. Corporately and individually. Someone has to do it. When you know the truth about something, and see no progress is being made, its just a matter of time before action has to be taken. Our team is on it.
We are here not to put band-aids on, but to make a change. Give people hope by sharing truth and offering our resources to help that change take place in lives.
And now – Our Answer to deadly disease and medication..Let me introduce-
Mike Carey- Alternative Solutions 4 Health- 98% Success rate in ridding the body of diseases from hepatitis to cancer in weeks..been at it 30 years now and we are glad to welcome him as a partner in our mission to educate and help heal the sick.
Cancer, hepatitis, and you name it all healed and gone and he has been at it for 30 years. Oh and his success rate is slightly different then the 30-50% we brag about in treating symptoms. His rate of success by the way is only 98%! And that’s accessory is success and ridding the body of disease. In America we called it “success” when we successfully relieve symptoms.
Mike makes his services available through Don’t Label My Kid!. If you or someone you know is suffering from a chronic or serious illness and have not been able to find any treatment and relief , email Mike email@example.com
TJ- What Do I Do?
I’ve had a few questions about whether I am a therapist, counselor, psychologist, psychiatrist? Teacher ? Or what ?? Lol ..In other words, how have I been able to help thousands of people get the treatment they need while steering clear of all the labels and piles of drugs? Am I all those things?
Yes and No. I do counsel and consult. However my gift and most useful tool is that I can accurately assess whether you need the Ford, or the Chevy. I can assess your child and steer you clear of thousands in wasted doctors fees. Many times a simple behavior plan that I write with and for your home, will solve much. No medicine. Educationally my background is Communications and Social Work. but equally as important is the fact that I have been through major depression, addiction, PTSD like some of you or your loves ones struggling right now. My brother killed himself. I have some real life experience. I have had 40 teen foster kids. Started schools for expelled kids and ran day programs for adults with severe behavioral problems. I have 4 kids of my own too.
You come to me for mental, behavioral, and addictions, and all parenting issues. You read my stuff here. You contact me for a personalized plan of care before you ever go to any mental health provider or psychiatrist -psychologist. Or addictions center. Otherwise you have absolutely no clue if you are even in the right place for your needs. Believe me if you are struggling with anything you need not be wasting months or years even before figuring out you were not getting the service you needed.
Now there is another very critical piece to our well being, The spiritual side. We have that covered too. Click on Matthew Winters at the top of this page, Pastor Matt is to you what Mike and I are in our respective areas. He is gifted in what he does just as we are. You will be hearing much more about some cool plans the three of us have soon.
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